Single Life?
Was going through some photos from a friend of mine on their latest trip to Vietnam, and already they are planning for another trip next year. And also the late night parties they were having almost every weekend or any day they felt like gathering. I guess it is much more easier being single in order to do all those activities.
Having said that, after being married Deluxe and myself was still able to move around like my bunch of friends back home. But ever since having Esther, our lifestyle has pretty much changed one way or another. As I look at those photos, I was wondering how in the world they have the energy to party all night, and still able to go to work the next day. Lol. As I was talking to Deluxe about this, she asked me this question on if I missed the life of being single or envy my friends able to travel around just like that without worrying anything at all.\
Come to think of it, I never have really given it a thought. Simply because maybe I just don’t have the time to do it as well. Lol. But seriously speaking, I don’t think I could actually sort of live up to that type of life again. 10 years ago maybe I could still be that monkey jumping up and down without any problems. Lol. But anyway coming back to the point, at this moment I don’t think I wanna go back doing all those things again.
I don’t know, maybe with Esther around priority does change in life for me. And of course, goofing around doesn’t really come into my priority list anymore. I don’t know, thinking that maybe that I wouldn’t want Esther to have a dad who still party all night through. Lol. I must honestly admit that I’ve done quite a lot of stupid things in my life. And looking back I seriously wish I didn’t do those things. Hahaha, and boy you would pretty much be amazed what I’ve done back then. But never the less, it’s all good. History will definitely not repeat itself, and I now understand why my parents would pretty much be crossed by the things that I’ve done. Lol. Anyway, what my priority right now is make sure that I can provide enough for the family and make sure there’s always food on the table.
Nowadays, it’s just me sitting behind the laptop thinking of means and ways just to make an extra buck. Whereby at the moment I’m still working on something and hopefully that would bring me somewhere in the near future. But in the mean time, the shop still goes on, and of course the website is still on, but will be introducing something new to it. And hopefully that would pretty much generate some income 
So in conclusion, no I don’t miss my life being single. As I’m very much happy on how things are turning out now. Not to mention that I had to “grow” a lot just to make sure Esther’s daddy is still not a monkey. No offense, but I think maybe that’s the way how things are suppose to be. As I noticed that, most of my friends back home tend to not hang out as I’m already a family man. A good example was my friend’s wedding last year, as they still wanted to lepak as I told them I’m already exhausted, and that was only 9pm. But at the end of the day, family will always be first in my priority, everything else would need to come next. Signing out now, going to work on a new project soon 
Have a nice day.
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