Since I have (sort of) decided that I am no longer going back to work full time, I have tried to brainwash Joel into coming home instead of going to the nanny’s everyday after school.
Previously he refused to come home as he is so used to going over to the nanny’s as he has a friend there to play with as opposed to coming home where he is alone…
But since I am starting him off on piano lessons (starting this week), he will already be home once a week…. hmmm… I might be “kiam-siap”… but then I think it makes more sense for him to come home instead of going to the nanny… can save on household expenses some more mah… since I am no longer working and my online business income is quite erractic…. sometimes good, sometimes bad… so have to save up loh…
So, I started asking him whether he wants to come home for the past month and he has come home for quite a number of occasions and I think he is getting used to the idea… and thus when I ask him… “Jo-ah, next month you come home everyday after school OK? No need to go auntie there already OK?” He was quite open and agreeable!
Hehe… perhaps it is because I bribe him with arts and crafts time at home… he just love messing around with paints and paper and glue… and I found this awesome site one day…. crafty-crafted.com… So I am now using ideas in this site with Joel…. on the days he is home… good mother son bonding time also…
To tell the truth, I am nervous also with the fact that he will be home… because this means I will have to manage my time better… and not sit around daydreaming…. or maybe I can get him to sit around to daydream together with me… haha….
Just so that I can visualise my time after Joel is home everyday, I even went as far as drawing up a simple time-table to show what he and I are doing…. well, just as a guide for me until I adjusted… Am I too organized???
Hehe… but then I also took the cowards way out… I secretly bincang with the nanny first… that if I am busy (or most likely needed a break.. haha), can I put Joel at her place and I pay her daily instead of monthly? She said OK… so, let’s see how things turn out…
Stay tuned for more anecdotes when Joel starts coming home… I am sure I will have lots to tell….